Sueli Montilha , BACP, NCPS

Sueli Montilha is a psychotherapist with a strong clinical foundation in sexual wellbeing, trauma work, and relationship therapy. She trained with an Advanced Professional Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling, a CPCAB Certificate in Counselling Children, and a Post Graduate Certificate in Low Intensity Psychological Interventions, and completed an MSc in Contemporary Psychosexual Therapy with distinction. In addition to these academic qualifications she holds professional credentials listed as BACP and NCPS, indicating recognised training and practice in counselling and psychotherapy.

Sueli brings experience from both the charity sector and the NHS, working with children, young people and adults across a wide range of concerns. Her practice includes work with complex trauma such as sexual trauma, common mental health difficulties including anxiety and depression, relationship and communication problems, and diverse sexual wellbeing issues such as erectile or ejaculatory difficulties, arousal and desire concerns, painful intercourse, and orgasm disorders.

Originally from Brazil, Sueli has lived in several countries and applies a multicultural perspective to her work. She uses a bio-psychosocial framework and embeds intersectionality in her approach. GSRD aware, she supports people of all genders, sexualities and relationship configurations - including couples, throuples and multiple partnered relationships. Sueli’s work focuses on supporting and empowering people on their wellbeing journey.

Psychosexual and Trauma-Informed Care Online

Sueli integrates psychosexual therapy into her online work, a focused approach that explores sexual wellbeing, intimacy and function in clear, practical terms to help with issues such as desire differences, arousal or orgasm concerns, and painful intercourse. She also uses trauma-informed approaches that prioritise safety, pacing and understanding the impact of complex or sexual trauma on thoughts, emotions and relationships. Additionally, Sueli applies low-intensity psychological interventions that offer step-by-step strategies and tools for managing anxiety, low mood and stress in accessible ways.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process - Sueli works with each person to identify goals, preferences and the methods that fit best, and adapts the plan as therapy progresses. Licensed professionals and therapists can draw on a mix of techniques to meet individual needs.

Online therapy with Sueli can be delivered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging, offering flexibility for different schedules and comfort levels. These formats make it easier to access consistent support from home or wherever is convenient, while maintaining regular contact and continuity of care.