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Dr. Sahar Khoshakhlagh

LMFT

Dr. Sahar Khoshakhlagh , LMFT

Therapist in New York

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About Sahar

Dr. Sahar Khoshakhlagh is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in New York with two decades of clinical experience supporting individuals, couples, and families through difficult transitions. She specializes in stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy concerns, grief, self-esteem struggles, LGBT issues, family and caregiver stress, career challenges, and compassion fatigue, and she also addresses attachment and abandonment wounds, codependency, communication and control issues, infidelity, and isolation.

Her work is guided by an attachment-focused lens - she pays close attention to how early experiences of love and safety influence present-day relationships and emotional patterns. In sessions she combines warmth with clinical rigor, conducting thorough assessments to understand each person as a whole and collaborating on goals that feel meaningful and achievable rather than predetermined. Her approach integrates systems thinking, emotionally focused methods to deepen connection, cognitive behavioral techniques for practical coping, and mindfulness practices when helpful.

Educationally, Dr. Khoshakhlagh holds a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from California State University, Fullerton, a Master of Arts in Applied Psychology from New York University, and a Doctor of Psychology (PsyD) in Couples and Family Therapy from the California School of Professional Psychology. She is fluent in English and Persian. Dr. Khoshakhlagh is not currently accepting new clients.

Attachment-Informed Approaches for Online Therapy

Attachment-Based Therapy explores how early relationship patterns shape current ways of relating and feeling - it helps people understand and heal patterns of closeness, avoidance, and fear that affect relationships and emotional wellbeing. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) focuses on identifying and reshaping core emotional responses between partners or within the self to strengthen bonds and improve communication. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) offers practical strategies to identify and shift unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, making it useful for anxiety, depression, and stress-related concerns.

Choosing the right approach is part of the therapeutic process and usually happens collaboratively. Dr. Khoshakhlagh works with clients to assess needs, goals, and preferences and then combines methods when that best serves the work - the aim is to find what fits each person or couple rather than apply a single technique.

Online therapy with a licensed professional offers flexibility and accessibility by allowing sessions via video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options make it easier to maintain continuity of care around work, family, and life changes, and they allow therapists and clients to focus on progress and practical coping in ways that integrate with everyday routines.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Dr. Sahar Khoshakhlagh have?

Dr. Sahar Khoshakhlagh has 20 years of experience as a therapist.

Is Dr. Sahar Khoshakhlagh a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the LMFT credential - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Her license details are NY LMFT 000775-1.

In which languages does Dr. Sahar Khoshakhlagh provide therapy?

She provides therapy in English and Persian.

Where is Dr. Sahar Khoshakhlagh located?

She is located in New York.

How can I work with Dr. Sahar Khoshakhlagh as my therapist?

You can work with Dr. Khoshakhlagh through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Dr. Sahar Khoshakhlagh work with international clients?

Dr. Khoshakhlagh does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Dr. Sahar Khoshakhlagh cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteem

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Licensed

New York

Languages

English, Persian

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