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Nicolette Ulstrom

LMFT

Nicolette Ulstrom , LMFT

Therapist in Minnesota

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About Nicolette

Nicolette Ulstrom earned a Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy from Argosy University in Eagan, Minnesota in 2012 and has been licensed since 2016. As a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) she draws on training that emphasizes relationships, family systems, and individual growth to support people through change.

Her early work in a family residential treatment center shaped a collaborative, strengths-based approach where families healed together through increased self-awareness and personal growth. She focuses on identifying and building strengths to help individuals and families find new ways of living with greater joy and fulfillment.

Ulstrom has eight years of clinical experience addressing substance use disorders, anxiety, women's issues, self-esteem and self-worth, and a broad range of relational and life challenges including grief, trauma, parenting, and intimacy-related concerns. She values each person’s life story and how past experiences have shaped who they are and who they want to become.

Nicolette takes a side-by-side approach, offering a supportive environment where encouragement and practical steps are used to unweave challenges and reconnect with a true sense of self. Her work centers on helping people explore their stories and choose how they want those stories to unfold going forward.

Approach to Therapy Online and Clinical Methods

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on the person’s own goals and strengths, offering empathic listening and support to help people explore their values and make meaningful changes. It is useful for issues like self-esteem, life transitions, and relationship concerns.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) combines practical skills training in emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness with a focus on balancing acceptance and change. It can help with intense emotions, anxiety, anger, and patterns related to substance use or self-harm.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) attends to patterns of emotional connection in relationships, helping partners and family members identify and shift interaction cycles to deepen trust and intimacy. It is particularly helpful for couples and attachment-related struggles.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Nicolette works collaboratively with each person to assess needs, goals, and preferences and to adapt methods so therapy feels useful and relevant. That collaboration guides which techniques and frameworks are emphasized.

Online therapy offers flexible options for connecting with licensed professionals. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction from home, phone sessions suit those who prefer voice contact, and live chat or text-based messaging provide shorter, real-time or asynchronous ways to check in between sessions. These options increase accessibility and make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life while maintaining continuity of care.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Nicolette Ulstrom have?

Nicolette Ulstrom has 8 years of experience.

Is Nicolette Ulstrom a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the credential LMFT and is licensed as MN LMFT 3287.

In which languages does Nicolette Ulstrom provide therapy?

She provides therapy in English.

Where is Nicolette Ulstrom located?

Nicolette Ulstrom is located in Minnesota.

How can I work with Nicolette Ulstrom as my therapist?

You can work with Nicolette Ulstrom through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Nicolette Ulstrom work with international clients?

Nicolette Ulstrom does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Nicolette Ulstrom cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesAnger managementSelf esteem

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAttachment issuesBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsLife purposeSelf-loveSexualityWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyDialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Motivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Licensed

Minnesota

Languages

English

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