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Nicola Willoughby

BACP

Nicola Willoughby , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Nicola

Nicola Willoughby is a registered member of the BACP and has been working in counselling since 2020, bringing three years of practical experience to her practice. She trained as an integrative counsellor, which means she adapts methods from different therapeutic models to fit each person's unique needs rather than using a single fixed approach. Nicola also holds a higher diploma in CBT, a practical training in cognitive behavioral therapy that focuses on the relationship between thoughts, feelings, and behaviours, and a foundation certificate in working with children and teens.

Her additional professional development includes focused training in bereavement and loss, domestic abuse, anxiety, anger management, and emotional regulation. Over the years Nicola has worked with many children with ADHD or ASD diagnoses, as well as adults who have received recent diagnoses, supporting them to recognise their strengths and the qualities that make them resilient. She places emphasis on helping people discover their own solutions, building on their strengths to make meaningful changes when facing trauma, grief, parenting challenges, career transitions, or other life adjustments.

Nicola’s practice covers a wide range of concerns including attachment and communication difficulties, relationship separation, domestic violence, eating and fertility issues, shame and guilt, panic and phobias, pregnancy and childbirth related matters, self-esteem, social anxiety, and women’s issues. Her approach aims to be flexible, collaborative, and tailored to the individual’s goals and circumstances.

Integrative and CBT-focused online support

Nicola uses an integrative counselling approach that blends techniques from different evidence-based models to suit each person’s needs, helping clients draw on a range of strategies rather than a single method. Cognitive behavioral therapy, for which she holds a higher diploma, involves exploring links between thoughts, emotions, and behaviours to reduce anxiety, manage anger, and address panic or phobic responses. She also applies bereavement-informed practices to gently support people working through loss, helping them process grief and find ways to adapt to major life changes.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic work. Nicola collaborates with clients to identify which methods feel most useful based on their goals, history, and preferences, adjusting the focus as progress is made. This collaborative process helps ensure therapy remains relevant and responsive to the person’s needs.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility - sessions can take place via video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging - making it easier to fit support into busy lives or when in-person appointments are not possible. For many people, these options increase access to consistent care and allow therapists and clients to work together effectively across different formats.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Nicola Willoughby have?

Nicola has three years of experience in counselling, having worked in the field since 2020.

Is Nicola Willoughby a licensed therapist?

Yes. Nicola is a registered member of the BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy in the United Kingdom.

In which languages does Nicola Willoughby provide therapy?

Nicola provides therapy in English.

Where is Nicola Willoughby located?

Nicola is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Nicola Willoughby as my therapist?

You can work with Nicola through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Nicola Willoughby work with international clients?

Nicola does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Nicola Willoughby cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and Nicola's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire to help match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Trauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesFertility issuesGuilt and shameHoardingNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPregnancy and childbirthSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Experience

3+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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