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Alexandra Ainge Cottle

LCMHC, LPC

Alexandra Ainge Cottle , LCMHC, LPC

Therapist in Utah

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About Alexandra

Alexandra Ainge Cottle is a licensed mental health counselor who provides individual and family therapy from a private practice in South Jordan, Utah. She holds the credentials LCMHC and LPC - LCMHC meaning Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and LPC meaning Licensed Professional Counselor - and brings a calm, compassionate presence to work with adolescents, parents, couples, and adults from diverse backgrounds.

She earned a Master of Education in Educational Psychology from the University of Utah, focusing her studies on cognitive behavioral and multicultural counseling. Alexandra began her clinical work in the school system and has since continued serving youth and families in private practice. Her early work included volunteering in schools, homeless shelters, and community organizations, and she has extensive experience helping teens and families navigate conflict, loss, and life transitions.

In session she uses an integrative approach, blending cognitive behavioral techniques, rational emotive behavior therapy principles, and family systems ideas to tailor treatment to each person or family. Alexandra values a warm therapeutic relationship built on empathy, understanding, and a touch of humor, and she draws on a wide range of therapeutic tools to develop individualized treatment plans. She has also presented and trained groups on parenting, self-esteem, anger management, marriage, sex education, self-harm, and grief.

Outside of her work she places great importance on relationships with friends and family and speaks openly about her own experiences with trauma, loss, and change as part of an ongoing journey toward greater well-being.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care with Alexandra



Alexandra often draws from cognitive behavioral therapy, attachment-based therapy, and client-centered methods. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) helps identify and shift unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, making it useful for anxiety, depression, stress, and coping with life changes. Attachment-based therapy explores how early relationships shape current patterns, which can support work on relationship difficulties, family dynamics, and intimacy concerns. Client-centered therapy emphasizes a nonjudgmental, empathic therapeutic relationship that helps clients feel heard and supported while they explore goals and personal growth.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Alexandra works together with each person to determine which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences, adapting techniques over time so therapy resonates and feels useful.

Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, offering flexibility for busy schedules and differing comfort levels. These formats make it easier to attend sessions from home, while preserving continuity of care during life transitions or travel. Working with licensed professionals through these modalities can make consistent therapeutic support more accessible and convenient.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Alexandra Ainge Cottle have?

Alexandra Ainge Cottle has 12 years of experience.

Is Alexandra Ainge Cottle a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the credentials LCMHC and LPC. License details are UT LCMHC 10997254-6004 and OR LPC C4276.

In which languages does Alexandra Ainge Cottle provide therapy?

Therapy is provided in English.

Where is Alexandra Ainge Cottle located?

She is located in Utah.

How can I work with Alexandra Ainge Cottle as my therapist?

You can work with Alexandra Ainge Cottle through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Alexandra Ainge Cottle work with international clients?

Yes, Alexandra Ainge Cottle works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Alexandra Ainge Cottle cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefDepression

Also works with

LGBTTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

12+ years

Licensed

Utah, Oregon

Languages

English

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