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Janet Lengsfelder

LMFT

Janet Lengsfelder , LMFT

Therapist in California

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About Janet

Janet Lengsfelder brings a background in nursing and more than two decades of clinical experience to her work as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). She began her career in nursing, supporting people through illness and recovery, and came to see how much healing depends on a consistent team that knows and encourages the whole person. This led her to pursue graduate training and a three-year program in Gestalt therapy, which deepened her skills for providing emotional first aid and guiding clients through meaningful change.

Janet approaches therapy as a fellow traveler on life’s path, combining practical techniques with an emphasis on self-awareness. She helps clients identify recurring life themes and strengthen their sense of self so that feelings of panic or catastrophe can shift into more manageable experiences of disappointment, sadness, or pain. Her work encourages clients to take risks in living fully and to learn and grow from difficult experiences, with the aim of opening the way to genuine moments of joy.

With a compassionate, challenge-oriented style, Janet supports people through stress, anxiety, grief, relationship concerns, addiction, trauma, parenting issues, career transitions, and end-of-life and caregiver stress. As an LMFT she integrates relational and emotional perspectives to foster healing and resilience, and she regards it as an honor to witness each person’s process.

Attachment and Emotion-Focused Care Online

Janet integrates Attachment-Based Therapy to explore how early bonds and current relationship patterns influence emotional reactions and connection. This approach helps clients understand attachment needs and improve closeness, trust, and communication in relationships.

She also uses Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), which focuses on identifying and processing core emotions to shift negative interaction cycles and strengthen secure bonds between partners or within oneself. EFT can be especially helpful for couples, intimacy-related concerns, and relationship rebuilding.

In practice, Janet views finding the right therapeutic approach as a collaborative process. She works with clients to assess needs, goals, and preferences and tailors interventions so the therapy fits the individual or couple rather than forcing a single method.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to provide flexibility for different schedules and comfort levels. These options make it easier to maintain continuity of care across life transitions, busy routines, and geographic constraints while working with licensed professionals toward meaningful change.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Janet Lengsfelder have?

Janet Lengsfelder has 25 years of experience in clinical work.

Is Janet Lengsfelder a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the credential LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and her license is CA LMFT 36041.

In which languages does Janet Lengsfelder provide therapy?

Janet provides therapy in English.

Where is Janet Lengsfelder located?

Janet is located in California.

How can I work with Janet Lengsfelder as my therapist?

You can work with Janet through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Janet Lengsfelder work with international clients?

Janet Lengsfelder does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Janet Lengsfelder cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefParenting issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoaching

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

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