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Elizabeth Kotkin

LMFT

Elizabeth Kotkin , LMFT

Therapist in New York

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About Elizabeth

Elizabeth Kotkin is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who brings 35 years of clinical experience to her work with adults navigating significant emotional challenges. She has practiced in both New York and California and focuses on issues such as depression, trauma, grief, social anxiety, isolation, shame, and relationship difficulties. Her reputation is built on a compassionate, individualized style that helps clients explore their histories and practical patterns while discovering new ways forward.

She is especially experienced supporting women through midlife transitions and guiding people in recovery from codependency and addiction. Her sessions emphasize building resilience and developing concrete strategies for coping with life changes, improving relationships, and addressing the emotional aftermath of past harm. Elizabeth blends empathy with clear, goal-oriented work to help clients clarify priorities and regain a sense of agency.

Throughout her decades-long career she aims to create a steady, respectful space where people can reflect, learn, and practice new skills. As an LMFT, she draws on training in family systems and relational approaches while tailoring interventions to each person's unique situation and goals.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Support

Elizabeth Kotkin draws on client-centered therapy to create a respectful, nonjudgmental space where people can explore their feelings and values; this approach helps individuals build self-awareness and strengthen their capacity for change. She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns and to teach practical skills for managing depression, anxiety, and stress. In addition, Trauma-Focused Therapy is part of her practice for addressing the effects of past harm, helping people process traumatic memories and reduce their impact on daily functioning.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic journey, and Elizabeth works collaboratively with clients and licensed professionals to determine which methods best match each person’s needs, goals, and preferences. Together they evaluate progress and adjust the plan to ensure the work feels relevant and achievable.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to connect, including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit sessions into busy schedules, continue care through life transitions, and access consistent support without travel, while preserving the same therapeutic focus Elizabeth uses in her in-person work.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Elizabeth Kotkin have?

Elizabeth Kotkin has 35 years of clinical experience working with adults on a range of emotional and relational concerns.

Is Elizabeth Kotkin a licensed therapist?

Yes. She is an LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Her licenses are listed as CA LMFT 19511 and NY LMFT 000974.

In which languages does Elizabeth Kotkin provide therapy?

Elizabeth Kotkin provides therapy in English.

Where is Elizabeth Kotkin located?

Elizabeth Kotkin is located in New York.

How can I work with Elizabeth Kotkin as my therapist?

You can work with Elizabeth Kotkin through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Elizabeth Kotkin work with international clients?

Elizabeth Kotkin does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Elizabeth Kotkin cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesCodependencyDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessMidlife crisisPost-traumatic stressSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

35+ years

Licensed

New York, California

Languages

English

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