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Dabney Hayes

LPCC, LPC

Dabney Hayes , LPCC, LPC

Therapist in North Carolina

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About Dabney

Dabney Hayes is a licensed counselor with 14 years of experience supporting people facing a wide range of challenges, from persistent anxiety and depression to trauma, addiction, and complicated grief. She focuses on helping clients untangle patterns rooted in shame, perfectionism, low self-esteem, and self-critical thinking, guiding them toward greater self-acceptance and more effective ways of coping. Her work emphasizes helping individuals develop healthier relationships with their thoughts, rebuild trust in themselves, and move toward lives that feel more authentic and confident.

Ms. Hayes has provided therapy in both individual and group settings and has experience working with children, adolescents, young adults, and families. She also assists clients with everyday stressors including relationship strain, family conflicts, parenting challenges, anger management, and school or work difficulties. Her approach is integrative and client-centered, drawing from evidence-informed methods such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy to tailor care to each person she sees.

She practices with professional credentials of LPCC and LPC, which are licenses that indicate formal clinical training and authorization to provide counseling. Dabney offers warm, nonjudgmental support aimed at practical growth and meaningful change, helping clients carry less of their pain alone and move toward their goals.

Integrative approaches for online therapy and care



Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps clients notice unhelpful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and supports taking values-driven actions. It can be useful for anxiety, depression, and patterns that limit everyday functioning. Attachment-Based Therapy explores how early relationships shape expectations and emotional responses in current relationships, making it helpful for attachment difficulties, intimacy-related concerns, and family challenges. Client-Centered Therapy prioritizes the client's perspective and fosters a collaborative, empathetic environment where the client’s goals and pace guide the work.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process, and Dabney works collaboratively with each person to identify methods that fit their needs, goals, and preferences. She integrates techniques as appropriate and adjusts focus over time so care stays aligned with what the client finds most helpful.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility - sessions by video call or phone can replicate face-to-face conversation while live chat and text-based messaging provide options for shorter check-ins or when speaking live is difficult. These formats make it easier to fit consistent therapy into busy lives, to maintain continuity during transitions, and to access licensed professionals from different locations.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Dabney Hayes have?

Dabney Hayes has 14 years of experience.

Is Dabney Hayes a licensed therapist?

Yes, she holds these credentials: LPCC, LPC. License details: CA LPCC 21269, CO LPC 0016842.

In which languages does Dabney Hayes provide therapy?

She provides therapy in English.

Where is Dabney Hayes located?

She is located in North Carolina.

How can I work with Dabney Hayes as my therapist?

You can work with Dabney Hayes through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Dabney Hayes work with international clients?

Yes, Dabney Hayes works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Dabney Hayes cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Just click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepressionCompassion fatigue

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Licensed

North Carolina, Florida, Washington, Colorado, California, South Carolina

Languages

English

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