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Carrie Gajowski

LMFT

Carrie Gajowski , LMFT

Therapist in California

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About Carrie

Carrie Gajowski, LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist), specializes in supporting people who are recovering from narcissistic and emotional abuse and managing related anxiety and trauma. She meets individuals who often feel confused, hurt, and uncertain after investing in a relationship that became controlling or damaging. Many arrive studying narcissism and looking for answers while they weigh how to move forward, and she helps them clarify what change could look like for their lives.

Her approach is grounded in an empathic, client-centered stance that adapts to each person’s needs. Carrie integrates tools from cognitive behavioral therapy, EMDR, and mindfulness to address trauma responses, anxiety, and the patterns that keep people stuck. She focuses on practical steps and inner work alike - helping clients rebuild boundaries, process painful experiences, and strengthen self-trust.

For those preparing to leave or reshape complicated relationships, Carrie offers guidance on decision-making, safety planning, and reclaiming a sense of self. Her goal is to help people move toward relationships and a life where they feel seen, heard, and respected, and to support them in creating choices that reflect their values and priorities.

Therapeutic approaches and online care

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening without judgment and supporting each person to explore their feelings at their own pace. It helps people regain confidence, clarify values, and feel understood during difficult relationship and life transitions.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, offers practical skills to identify and change unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns. It is often used for anxiety, stress, and the self-critical thoughts that can follow emotional abuse.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice their thoughts and feelings without getting consumed by them, and then commit to actions that align with their values. It can be useful for building resilience and moving toward meaningful goals after trauma.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Carrie works collaboratively with each person - exploring goals, preferences, and life circumstances to determine which methods to emphasize and adjusting the plan as progress unfolds.

Online therapy offers flexible options to fit busy or changing schedules. Sessions can take place by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, making it easier to maintain continuity of care from home or while traveling and to access support in a way that suits each person’s needs.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Carrie Gajowski have?

Carrie Gajowski has 7 years of experience.

Is Carrie Gajowski a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the LMFT credential - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - and is licensed in California and Arizona. License details are CA LMFT 129824 and AZ LMFT LMFT-16414.

In which languages does Carrie Gajowski provide therapy?

Therapy with Carrie Gajowski is provided in English.

Where is Carrie Gajowski located?

Carrie Gajowski is located in California.

How can I work with Carrie Gajowski as my therapist?

You can work with Carrie Gajowski through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Carrie Gajowski work with international clients?

Carrie Gajowski does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Carrie Gajowski cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

CodependencyCommunication problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Licensed

California, Arizona

Languages

English

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